The nature of power in
pastoral relationships
Chapter 1
The roots of power in
pastoral relationships
The Fear of ‘Power’
In many Christian groups the
idea of ‘power’ is considered to be dangerous, John Harris (1977: 55) writes
that, as Christians, “…we have been afraid of power and have tried to hide its
overt exercise from ourselves.” This has led to concealing power or pretending
that in the church there are no holders of power, that we live in a situation
of mutuality, free from the undue influence of power. Harris continues “Against this background,
many pastors have sought to wield influence while appearing as neutral and
benevolent parties, as disinterested in power.”
But power is a very real
part of pastoral ministry, especially within the structures of the Church. As we attempt to deconstruct the bases of
that power and of the authority that gives ministers certain power in pastoral
encounter we must consider how power might be acknowledged and used
appropriately in pastoral encounters.
Initial Structural Considerations
T Howland Sanks (1987: 74)
writes:
“Like any
other human sociological group, the Christian community requires some authority
to maintain its identity, its unity, and to resolve internal conflicts.”
That authority within the
church has come to be concentrated in the hands of ministers of the church,
both lay and ordained - though in the majority of cases with those in a
recognised position of authority such as clergy. This role has extended into the world beyond
the Church, especially in western societies, where the minister often holds a
status within the community at large as well as within the community of
faith. It is worth mentioning here that
it is being recognised by many contemporary Ecclesiologists that this role and
status in the community at large is, in many cases breaking down, with ministers
finding themselves unsure of the position they hold both within the Church and
in society as a whole.
Michael Riddell (1998: 6)
talks of the ‘…loss of status of the Church’ and says
“There was
a time when not only the Church was held in high regard, but also the
profession of ministry. To be ordained
was to be somebody; to have a certain degree of standing and respect by virtue
of one’s vocation. This is no longer
true.”
This in itself has created
for pastoral ministers, not only ordained but laity also, issues of insecurity
and loss of identity, which can lead to both positive and negative
results.
One response to such
insecurity is to consider new models of ministry, looking at issues such as lay
involvement, non hierarchical structures and empowering both sides of the
pastoral encounter. There is more commitment among many ministers to exploring
new ways of working, examining issues such as motivation, accountability,
sharing power and the relationship between lay and ordained ministry. As a
cautionary note, Riddell (1998) comments that, especially in Protestant
Evangelical structures, much of the adoption of new models can involve the
inappropriate taking on of commercial managerial methods without considering
their impact on a pastoral role
A more negative
approach to such insecurity may (often
unconsciously) seek to reinforce often, literally and metaphorically, crumbling
structures and hold on to the vestiges and/or illusion of power. This approach might involve maintaining strong
boundaries and refuse to change structures, methods, ideas or doctrine -
becoming reactionary and containing a ‘siege mentality’ that finds it
impossible to be open or flexible.
This subject is too large to
be examined any further in this paper and is one being explored by many
present-day church thinkers and writers, including Riddell (1998), Newbigin
(1996) and Bosch (1995). It does,
however, highlight the need to examine the issues of power and authority in
pastoral ministry, especially in the church, as times of change such as the
current era can often create such insecurities that positions of power are even
more open to abuse than in a more settled society.
Power-brokers
Leaders who have pastoral
power and authority, whilst ultimately answerable to the people they serve, are
still usually the holders of power in most pastoral encounters. This is not to deny the power that the client
holds in a pastoral relationship, as those who often initiate the pastoral
relationship. From the start,
therefore, we will work from the assumption that the pastor is the ‘power
broker’ in the pastoral encounter and that the power within the relationship is
mainly in their hands.
The minister (often, though not always,
ordained) is the one to whom both members of their church fellowships and,
sometimes, the general public turn at times of deepest joy and of deepest need,
looking for answers which make sense of the world around them from a
perspective of faith. The pastor is a
leader of a community and much of his or her authority comes from the
community’s recognition of their position.
As Bishop Penny Jamieson (1997: 12
) writes, “It is natural then for individuals seeking leadership for their
community to seek an individual in whom to locate the power enabling that
leadership to function.”
Traditionally in both
‘sacred and secular’ situations, especially in small communities, the minister
of the local ‘faith-community’ has taken on some kind of public leadership
role, and this carries on still to a greater or lesser extent depending on the
makeup of a community.
The basis of pastoral power
Often the issues brought to
these individuals in leadership by members of their congregation and by others
who come to them as pastors are of a personal, even intimate nature. This can engender a relationship in which the
minister is privy to quite sensitive, painful and confidential nature. This, alongside the power inherent in their
position of authority, can be a combination that leaves both pastor and client
open to abuse within the pastoral relationship.
Much of the pastoral contact
which a minister has is based upon trust. The individual comes to her or him in
an attitude of humility - to a greater or lesser degree - and this opens up a
relationship in which the minister, the pastor, has a certain amount of power
and the potential to control, or at least have a strong influence on, the
client. In the light of the fact that
this approach to the pastor has occurred voluntarily, and that the church is a
body consisting of those who have made a choice to be there, there is the
possibility that the pastor has a great deal of influence over those she or he
is responsible for. People place
themselves in the hands of their pastors, and allow the pastors great sway in
personal decisions. People also look to
the church for guidance, and expect the minister, as the representative of the
church to speak on behalf of the church, and even on behalf of God, as pastors
and prophets.
This power springs from the
very beginning of the Church and is part of the foundational principles of the
Christian community. T Howland Sanks (1987 :74) states that “Authority in the early church was understood
to be more than a mere sociological necessity; it was a spiritual authority.” This type of authority is related to the
understanding that we examine more in Chapters Two and Four and of this study,
that, originating in the person and work of Christ, power and authority are a
part of the nature of Christian ministry.
As such, any authority held by a Christian in pastoral office is an
offshoot of the power that Jesus held and administered in his ministry and
comes also from the understanding of power held by the first Christian
communities and passed on through the ages of the Church. Sanks
(1987: 74) elaborates, explaining that
“Authority
in this community is based on the authority of Jesus himself and his commission
to his disciples ‘All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to
me. Go therefore and make disciples of
all nations, baptising them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the
Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you; and, lo, I
am with you always, to the close of the age.’ (Mt 28: 18-29)”
Those who are leaders of the
Church are given their position by those they minister to, and in many
traditions, by others who are already in leadership. In Churches those engaged in pastoral
ministry are usually ordained there is normally a process of examination of
candidates by both laity and clergy and, after a period of training and
teaching, authority is conferred by someone of higher office in the Church
through a recognised symbol such as the laying on of hands. This activity is a visible sign of the power
and authority conferred upon ministers who serve those Churches.
Authority and power are
therefore two of the keys to effective pastoral ministry, not only in the
Church but in any pastoral situation.
Those who act pastorally, whether Priests, Social Workers,
Psychotherapists or any others with similar roles operate effectively because
of the personal or institutional authority that it is perceived that they
have. This power and authority may come
through qualifications and training, position, professional standing, or even
from trust built up in previous relationships.
It is this sense of ‘speaking from/with authority’, that opens up the
potential for both meaningful and effective pastoral contact and for the abuse
of those who seek aid from a pastor - either intentionally or unconsciously on
the part of the pastor.
There is inherent in
Christian ministry, indeed in any pastoral contact, many opportunities to offer
help to those in deepest need, but alongside this there are always
possibilities of misusing power by controlling those at their most vulnerable
who come seeking assistance from a pastor.
This control may be conscious or subconscious - it is often related to
the dynamic that exists in the relationship between client and pastor. We will examine this in more detail in Chapter
Four and consider further implications in Chapter Five, but in brief, Dr Brice
Avery (1996: 40) explains:
“… the
pastoral encounter requires a partial and mutual emotional immersions of the
pastor and the client: how else is the pastor to know what it is to be like the
client? But, and this is crucial,…the
pastor has to know his or her own responses to as wide a range of emotional
contacts as possible to be able to tell the difference between their own
feelings and that of the client.”
So the pastor is in a
position where she or he is vulnerable to abusing their position by the very
nature of their openness to the client.
As the dynamics of pastoral relationships unfold it is often difficult
to distinguish between the needs of the client and the needs that the pastor is
seeking to fulfil - this is a dangerous situation and leads very easily into
misuse of the power invested in the minister as they, often unconsciously,
project unhelpful and destructive ideas upon the client. The implications of this and possible means
of guarding against the situation are examined more fully in later chapters (as
mentioned above.) But it is important at
this point to note that no pastor is infallible, and that the power they have
to heal or to harm is constantly open to misuse. With power must come responsibility and the
pastor has to be aware at all times of the fragility of the people they hold
power over.
The ‘Suspicion of Power’
There are dangers in the use
of power that means that some are always highly suspicious of any institution
or figure who claims holds authority or power over any other person. The presence of power in any relationship
suggests to such people a fundamental inequality. Many ‘Post-modern’ thinkers work from the
basis of a ‘suspicion of power’ and the imposition of any opinion upon another
human being is seen to be threat to their individuality and self-hood. Middleton & Walsh (1995: 40) describe
this understanding thus:
“…not only
is reality a human construct, it is more particularly a social construct. It is
always someone’s or some group’s construction of reality
that ends up being the dominant construction that guides social life…‘why is it
your construction of reality, your collective hunch, that rules?’ Why
is any one construction of reality given privileged status, thereby
marginalizing all others?”
In many ways this critical
viewpoint has caused those holding power to feel vulnerable to attack and many
have felt the influence they have held over certain events, groups and
individuals slipping away. This added to
various identity and role crises can cause great strain for any pastoral
minister. However, the positive aspect
of this ‘sea-change’ in popular perception has been an increase in structures
of accountability and in the checks and balances that need to exist to prevent
power being exercised inappropriately.
Many organisations have had to step back and examine the methods and
processes by which power is exercised by those within the organisation - the
Church is no exception to this.
In order to further inform
this debate we will move on to examine the life and teaching of Jesus and the
Church of the Apostolic and Post-Apostolic eras, as the foundations upon which
modern day pastoral ministry is built. We
will examine the implications brought about by the development of structures of
authority in the church of the first two generations of Christians and examine
the tensions between ‘institutional and
‘charismatic’ power and authority.
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